I would personally go for a 5th option which is similar to B) only instead of asserting that the group is inferior for violating my value, I accept that they are just different to me. That said I'm unsure how well I uphold that idea in my actions etc, and I doubt most other people are able to see things the same way.

Also I can't think of many if any groups of which every member violates one of my values, without defining that group by their violation of that value.