User alias_sqbr referenced to your post from Rambly thoughts on niceness (http://alias-sqbr.livejournal.com/222235.html) saying: [...] people coming into discussions of racism and thinking they can be the "objective voice of reason". Why can't we all be nice (http://alias-sqbr.livejournal.com/183955.html) in which I rant about the "tone" argument, has more links at the bottom (*)A lot of people assume my "nice" ... [...]