"OH YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND THE RIGHT BOY LOL DON'T WORRY TRUE LOVE WILL MAKE YOU ONE OF US"

I have been very guilty of this (including with you, I think, for which I apologise) I mean some people do change their attitude and benefit from finding the right romantic partner, but that doesn't make it right to assume that's right for everyone, any more than people should go around assuming all we need to do is "find the right religion".