terms of ally-work, "nice" tends to turn into "wanting to be liked by everyone, including the people who hold -ist beliefs AND the people who are victims of those beliefs," which is a frickin' DISASTER
YES. And I have a problem with this with sexists etc too, my niceness runs deep.
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terms of ally-work, "nice" tends to turn into "wanting to be liked by everyone, including the people who hold -ist beliefs AND the people who are victims of those beliefs," which is a frickin' DISASTER
YES. And I have a problem with this with sexists etc too, my niceness runs deep.