I think I need some sort of general "We are all often tired and tactless, so stuff tends to come across the wrong way" amnesty :) (It didn't, by the way)

Also while I can see how it sounds like I'm talking about you, your post didn't bother me, since you were quite clear that you didn't feel pressured.

Hmm. Now I'm not sure that came out right either. Talking is hard.