I deliberately made the power dynamic way off, because at least for me that helps me see how white-centric my focus is. The UNF/WFS power dynamic is more like I think it should be, and it helps me avoid derailing because I think the power dynamics give me an "excuse" like "there are so many more white fans" (which I think had quite a bit to do with why I derailed in the first place).
Re: painful analogy