I can't really help answer your questions. So I'm going to ramble. I hope that's okay.
I have been accused of being a lesbian a lot. Apparently being a hairy-legged, grumpy, oftenshorthaired, non-makeup wearing motorcyclists is something of a stereotype. To the point where people won't believe I have a boyfriend. :P
Which is annoying, mostly because it's not as if I'm against the idea of being bi, or lesbian. What I do hate about the idea of identifying as bisexual when I've only ever fooled around briefly with girls, after several serious and serious-ish relationships with guys. Associating with the idea of being a girl who kisses girls for the attention annoys me.
There's also the issue of being pretty seriously harrassed at varying points of my life due to the assumption that I was a lesbian. Weird times.
I'm going to ramble. No idea how offensive it is.
I have been accused of being a lesbian a lot. Apparently being a hairy-legged, grumpy, oftenshorthaired, non-makeup wearing motorcyclists is something of a stereotype. To the point where people won't believe I have a boyfriend. :P
Which is annoying, mostly because it's not as if I'm against the idea of being bi, or lesbian. What I do hate about the idea of identifying as bisexual when I've only ever fooled around briefly with girls, after several serious and serious-ish relationships with guys. Associating with the idea of being a girl who kisses girls for the attention annoys me.
There's also the issue of being pretty seriously harrassed at varying points of my life due to the assumption that I was a lesbian. Weird times.