Oh man, I was totally interrogating you from the wrong perspective, sorry :(

I'm at the point with this thing where I can't tell what's legitimate annoyance at what people are saying and generally being annoyed at everything (which I kind of was already before the conversation started) so am taking a break until my brain simmers down. My apologies for snapping at you, I was pretty much at the point of snapping in general and you were an innocent bystander who happened to be in the way :/