Yeah, in some ways bisexuality cops the worst of it, because you get the homophobia, the creeps like that guy, *and* a subset of the homosexual community who are totally prejudiced against bisexuals. (Especially, unfortunately, bisexual people who have heterosexual marriages.)
On the other hand, those people suck and can be ignored, imo.
I still have a tendency to forget that Cam is biracial. I think if he didn't have an *overwhelmingly Scottish* name, or if he didn't have such *overwhelmingly Scottish* colouring, I would remember that he's not just Scottish, but... there just aren't that many biracial people one tends to meet, befriend, and socialise with for a period of multiple years before you actually find out about their biracial...ness.
Also, I hardly ever actually see him these days, so he's sort of this abstract Sophie-attachment in my head, a lot of the time. Unless I concentrate, my mental image of Cam is this vague blur of "tall/fair-skin/red-hair/genial/not-loud".
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On the other hand, those people suck and can be ignored, imo.
I still have a tendency to forget that Cam is biracial. I think if he didn't have an *overwhelmingly Scottish* name, or if he didn't have such *overwhelmingly Scottish* colouring, I would remember that he's not just Scottish, but... there just aren't that many biracial people one tends to meet, befriend, and socialise with for a period of multiple years before you actually find out about their biracial...ness.
Also, I hardly ever actually see him these days, so he's sort of this abstract Sophie-attachment in my head, a lot of the time. Unless I concentrate, my mental image of Cam is this vague blur of "tall/fair-skin/red-hair/genial/not-loud".