In from network: Yes, to all of this.

I tend to observe that disability is the axis that everyone likes to leave off their consideration list, mostly because it's the axis that makes everything incredibly complicated homg. And it starts becoming really obvious that a lot of people just want to figure out when they can stop caring about how much harm they might be doing to the person they're in conflict with.

Oh god, that post re: panic attacks. *facehands*