And for my own fanfiction Tumblr account (where I have 1300 followers eesh) I just try and make sure that I don't concern troll and am very, very careful about the opinions I post (mostly to avoid judging groups of people or judging ships or pairings or characters etc.) Some of those people listen to me far too much, or lend far too much credence to what I say, so I just...try and be extremely careful. Not sure if I'm doing it well. But yeah...'tread carefully' is something I've been embracing on that particular account.

It seems to me (and I'm not any sort of creator, artist or writer), that you be mindful of the fact that there are pitfalls out there, you do the best you can to avoid them and you accept that sometimes you are going to do your best and screw up anyway. And other times you are going to screw up because you weren't being as careful as you might have been.

Then you allow for admitting that you did, or even might have, screwed up, and you try to grow from there.

Now if you can find the balance between admitting you screwed up and trying to be better without beating yourself up overly, do share the trick with the rest of us, yes? ;)