Strong agreement with you here. It's very "pick a team" rhetoric as far as I can tell. Nobody is denying that there is plenty of gross ace rhetoric you can dredge up at AVEN or Tumblr or wherever, should you feel so inclined. (I'm not, which seems to be... surprisingly rare.) But no matter how much Team Acephobe seems to want it to be, the mere fact of ID-ing as asexual is not inherently 1. TMI and/or 2. sex-shaming.