I recently went back and reminded myself of some of the myths of Hephaestus. And I think I'm gonna adopt him as my patron of "never forgive your abusers."

Dude wielded his righteous anger like his hammer and tongs, and never let go.

Hera threw him off Olympus because he was born deformed?

Fine. He's not gonna think of her as him mother, and instead accept Thetis (the sea-nymph who helped him recover from the fall) as family, instead.