I don't disagree with anything you've said here per se, but I didn't explicitly say that we need SOME rules around sex because it goes without saying.
The topic of this post is people whose approach to sexual/relationship etc rules is that everything that isn't forbidden is compulsory. And what I and pervocracy are arguing is that some things should be compulsory, and some forbidden, but a lot can be left to individual preference.
Also, this may be an issue with the clarity of my post or the one I quoted, but it was pretty upsetting to make a post pushing back against the idea that trans/fat/old etc people are inherently unattractive, and get a comment implying that this is equivalent to advocating for rape.
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The topic of this post is people whose approach to sexual/relationship etc rules is that everything that isn't forbidden is compulsory. And what I and pervocracy are arguing is that some things should be compulsory, and some forbidden, but a lot can be left to individual preference.
Also, this may be an issue with the clarity of my post or the one I quoted, but it was pretty upsetting to make a post pushing back against the idea that trans/fat/old etc people are inherently unattractive, and get a comment implying that this is equivalent to advocating for rape.