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  <title>Thorns</title>
  <subtitle>Sean</subtitle>
  <author>
    <name>Sean</name>
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  <updated>2011-05-31T12:36:55Z</updated>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-14:56053:268407</id>
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    <title>A shocking turn of events</title>
    <published>2010-02-21T01:29:17Z</published>
    <updated>2010-02-21T04:26:29Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">So, the universe (via it's earthly representative &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap; text-decoration: line-through;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://linkspam.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://linkspam.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;linkspam&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;) has kindly decided to give me a real world example of the &lt;a href="http://sqbr.dreamwidth.org/266749.html"&gt;hypothetical derailing conversation I came up with.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(And yes, I know, it doesn't fit the pattern EXACTLY. It's still pretty close to have happened within less than two weeks)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First: &lt;a href="http://disabledfeminists.com/2010/02/09/evelyn-evelyn-ableism-ableism/"&gt;I just read this &lt;strike&gt;Bones fic "Someone loses an eye"&lt;/strike&gt; description of Amanda Palmer's new album and it's really ableist.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then inevitably &lt;a href="http://blog.amandapalmer.net/post/396762227/evelyn-evelyn-drama-drama"&gt;All these posts about disability are making me feel silenced. Don't they realise how that hurts my feelings as a &lt;strike&gt;woman&lt;/strike&gt; female artist? Our voices NEVER get to be heard, and now these oversensitive disabled people are telling ME what I can and cannot write! Helen Keller would be ashamed.&lt;/a&gt;(*)&lt;br /&gt;which of course leads to&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://torenheksje.livejournal.com/443574.html?format=light"&gt;I think it's really important that we focus on the way &lt;strike&gt;women's voices&lt;/strike&gt; artists are silenced.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Something I did not have an equivalent of in my post but which is an important part of the dynamic: a &lt;a href="http://the-willow.insanejournal.com/974334.html"&gt;slightly separate but equally valid discussion of the issues to do with the project involving sexual abuse&lt;/a&gt;. EDIT: In my opinion a perfect example of how sometimes two different discussions around a topic can exist simultaneously without either of them being a derail. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*waits for someone to accuse me of being pro censorship*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(*)That's just in one section, the overall post goes in multiple contrary directions at once.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sqbr&amp;ditemid=268407" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-14:56053:266749</id>
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    <title>Derailing by numbers</title>
    <published>2010-02-08T02:21:17Z</published>
    <updated>2011-05-31T12:36:55Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">EDIT: People keep linking to this, as far as I can tell with the assumption that my meandering and ridiculously complex attempt to translate social justice concepts into something my mathematician's brain can understand is a set of rules I expect other people to follow, unless they want me and my fellow scary social justice types to come dogpile them or something. I am deliberately poking at ambiguous situations in order to understand them, not giving examples of blatant Fail! Overall I rather regret this post, it's so full of edits and addendums my original point is mostly lost :/   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sqbr.dreamwidth.org/266749.html#cutid1"&gt;Read more...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sqbr&amp;ditemid=266749" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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