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  <title>Thorns</title>
  <subtitle>Sean</subtitle>
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    <name>Sean</name>
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  <updated>2012-09-21T00:34:44Z</updated>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-14:56053:318958</id>
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    <title>Not getting a joke is the worst possible sin</title>
    <published>2012-09-21T00:34:44Z</published>
    <updated>2012-09-21T00:34:44Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">So, &lt;a href="http://picturesforsadchildren.com/"&gt;Pictures for Sad Children&lt;/a&gt; is a webcomic full of wry, self aware melancholy about dysfunctional people. I get linked it a lot but  have always found it hit and miss. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The creator recently &lt;a href="http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/73258510/sad-pictures-for-children/posts/311890"&gt;put up a post on his Kickstarter&lt;/a&gt; saying that he had been pretending to be depressed this whole time because that's just what artists do. Cue many depressed fans who had really connected with his comics feeling betrayed, and many ableist fans rejoicing at a chance to go on about how depression isn't really a thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But it was apparently all a joke, which anyone who was friends with him or familiar with his other work would have recognised, so &lt;a href="http://jephjacques.com/post/31914448216/stfu-conservatives-redrupee-do-not-support"&gt;all that outrage was for nothing HAHA TUMBLR&lt;/a&gt;. (The other, much more understandable "ARGH TUMBLR" reaction is to all the people who have been told that it's a joke but are still acting like it was meant literally, and the inevitable death treats etc. ARGH TUMBLR)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This attitude really pisses me off. I'm all in favour of satire and sarcasm (see: the title of this post, the previous paragraph), and not all humour has to be accessible to everyone. But if you tell a joke where it would be really bad if people took you literally, and most people DO take you literally, then you told the joke badly and you are responsible for the consequences.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure, there's only so much you can do about overly literal minded people, and it I think it's justifiable to cause SOME pain with art/humour, or we'd never get to use them at all. But having patchy reading comprehension or "not being a true fan" doesn't somehow make a person unworthy of compassion. Afaict most PFSC readers thought this was real, and a great many were deeply hurt. This could have been avoided if he made the satire more obvious, and I can't see any real advantage to being so opaque except...making the joke funnier for the people who get it? Being more effective on the tiny sliver of bigots who got the joke? Woo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And even if we decide that everyone who doesn't get the joke is a humourless moron unworthy of respect, think of all the bigots who took it as support for hating on depressed people. Not actually being on their side doesn't magically make the pro-bigotry effect go away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is not someone's private blog that got taken out of context. It was a public and actively promoted kickstarter aimed at people who read PFSC, and it clearly failed at being clear to it's intended audience. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since this apparently does need to be said: I'm not saying we should all go chasing after John Campbell with pitchforks, and the people who are harassing him need to step down. I do think he's a bit of a pretentious douche, but to be honest I kind of thought that anyway. Mainly I'm defending the people who &lt;em&gt;are&lt;/em&gt; fans of PFSC and felt hurt from having their feelings dismissed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sqbr&amp;ditemid=318958" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-14:56053:297837</id>
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    <title>An incomplete list of things that annoy me about Homestuck</title>
    <published>2011-01-14T00:59:51Z</published>
    <updated>2011-01-14T23:49:48Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">Homestuck is one of those canons where I often veer dramatically from "This is so awesome!" to "ARGH SO ANGRY WHY CAN'T I QUIT YOU??" and back again. Right now I just feel like venting about the latter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sqbr.dreamwidth.org/297837.html#cutid1"&gt;Read more...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sqbr&amp;ditemid=297837" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-14:56053:286889</id>
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    <title>Fanboys and Riot Nrrds</title>
    <published>2010-07-29T01:53:49Z</published>
    <updated>2010-07-29T03:18:18Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">Saw &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fanboys_%282009_film%29"&gt;Fanboys&lt;/a&gt; last night. It's not a good film, but enjoyable enough as a geek road movie (and it's not like that's a large enough genre that one can afford to be too picky) It was VERY much the story of a bunch of white straight dudes, though, the writers clearly had no idea what to do with their one female character and the homophobia was pretty intense. That said, I think I liked it as much as the geek guys I've discussed it with, since the main problem with the film is that apart from the odd quite funny scene it just isn't very good!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, it was thus nice this morning to read &lt;a href="http://tigerbeatdown.com/2010/07/28/cause-im-nerdcore-like-that-toward-a-subversive-geek-identity/"&gt;‘CAUSE I’M NERDCORE LIKE THAT: Toward a Subversive Geek Identity&lt;/a&gt; which then led me to &lt;a href="http://www.riotnrrdcomics.com"&gt;Riot Nrrd&lt;/a&gt;, a very cute webcomic about "being LGBT nerds, female nerds, nerds of color, disabled nerds, and other kinds of nerds that don’t get as much love" which is like a cross between "Dykes to watch out for" and geeky slice of life comics like "Weregeek"(*). It even has a transcript, huzzah!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's geeky female characters in lots of webcomics, often but not always done fairly well, but I'm having trouble thinking of any I've really liked in mainstream-ish films or books. Any suggestions?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(*)Not that "Dykes to watch out for" doesn't have geeky aspects and geeky webcomics don't have any female/LGBT etc characters. But this is more concentrated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sqbr&amp;ditemid=286889" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-14:56053:255118</id>
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    <title>Blah Sinfest</title>
    <published>2009-10-25T07:38:49Z</published>
    <updated>2009-10-25T08:12:17Z</updated>
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    <dw:mood>hmm</dw:mood>
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    <content type="html">I always feel weird going out on a limb about American racism in case I'm missing some  cultural cue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But &lt;a href="http://www.sinfest.net/archive_page.php?comicID=3337"&gt;equating the segregation of African Americans with "intolerance" towards devils and evil&lt;/a&gt; feels ever so slightly off to me. I mean that sort of metaphor is always a bit problematic, but usually it's not quite such an explicit equating-ness(*).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am reminded of why I try not to read Sinfest. It sucks me in with the adorable drawing style and cute humour, and then bats me around with it's creepy attitudes towards gender etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(*)"Equality" has too much of a double meaning for this sentence :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sqbr&amp;ditemid=255118" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-14:56053:232194</id>
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    <title>How to feel odd</title>
    <published>2009-05-05T07:37:34Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-05T07:37:34Z</updated>
    <category term="blargle"/>
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    <category term="life"/>
    <category term="gender"/>
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    <dw:mood>blah</dw:mood>
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    <content type="html">Read pretty much all of &lt;a href="http://rosalarian.com/yume/"&gt;Yu+me Dream&lt;/a&gt; in one sitting (it starts as the story of a depressed American schoolgirl who everyone picks on but then goes somewhere very..odd)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Realise the reason you did this is because you are feeling sick and depressed and stupid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take the next day off work. Feel more sick and depressed and stupid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watch &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Speak_(film)"&gt;Speak&lt;/a&gt;, the story of a depressed American schoolgirl (played by Kristin Stewart) who is by turns ignored and picked on as she struggles to express her feelings after being raped by a charming older boy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watch the fanvid &lt;a href="http://viorica8957.livejournal.com/65739.html"&gt;Because he loves her&lt;/a&gt;, which amongst other things takes Twilight, the story of a mopey American schoolgirl (played by Kristin Stewart) who falls in love with a controlling, violent, charming older boy, and highlights the parallels with domestic violence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Decide you need to read or watch something cheerful. With &lt;i&gt;absolutely&lt;/i&gt; no schoolgirls or depressed people. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(nb: all of these things are pretty good. Yu+me is a really engaging lesbian romance which goes to an unexpected and fascinating place, though the overall portrayal of POC characters made me uncomfortable. Speak is understated and subtle. The vid makes a good point though imo needs more fandoms and/or more narrative)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sqbr&amp;ditemid=232194" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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