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This started as a response to a tumblr post about "multiple creators having to publicly out themselves or reveal past traumas in order to get fans to stop yelling at them for representing a certain minority/concept in fiction" which I felt was being too simplistic.
Basically: people should be able to write about their own experience without having to out themselves. Enforcing a narrow idea of who is 'allowed' to write certain stories (or assuming that only privileged people would even want to) hurts everyone.
But I also think criticism should be allowed to sometimes bring up the privilege of creators/actors etc, even when there's a chance they may be in the closet. We just need to be more careful about how we do it.
And I didn't like the implication that there should never be any backlash or concern over this sort of thing.
Note: I scrolled through the OP's blog and they mentioned there was complex cultural stuff going on with the Jamila Jameel thing making it a poor specific example. But that doesn't really affect their argument or mine.
1) I think it’s reasonable to generally encourage own voices etc, or be personally reluctant to trust certain kinds of authors to handle certain topics. But the way to do that is to just consume and promote works that you know are by the relevant group, not attack works that seemingly aren’t.
2)There are certain casting choices where I think it’s reasonable to complain on principle. Like if, say, a cis woman is cast as a trans man character, even though there’s a small but non-zero chance that the actor is actually a closeted trans man. But such criticism should bear in mind the possibility that you’re wrong about the actor and hold up even if you are, and shouldn't say someone is definitely cis/straight etc when all you can say is that they're not known to be anything else.
Like if it turns out that Eddie Redmayne is a closeted trans woman, and the creators of The Danish Girl knew that, I'd say it was still bad to cast someone who was publicly seen as a cis man in the role of a trans woman. So someone could acknowledge the possibility that Eddie Redmayne is actually a woman while still criticising the casting.
If you think it would be ok if the creator/actor etc was X, then that's different, and requires a more thoughtful approach. Like you might complain about the pattern of (seemingly) straight writers creating popular works about queer people, but at most just make a tired sigh about any individual case, which isn't going to do any real harm to the author if they are queer but closeted.
3) There’s messy situations where people do have a problem with the actual portrayal, and find it so offensive they assume it must have been created by a transphobic cis person etc, but then the author comes out and says they were drawing on personal experience and it’s all a mess. See: I Sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter. I mean this would happen a lot less often if so much criticism didn’t assume a simple Problematic-vs-Good Representation dichotomy, and there was more space to acknowledge differing reactions and unfortunate trends without jumping so quickly to This Should Never Have Been Made.
But like... we need to give marginalised people space to work through their reactions to things that hurt them, even if it’s in confronting or controversial ways, in both art and criticism. How we can do that while minimising the hurt we do to each other is a question I have yet seen any simple answers for, though we should all keep trying anyway.
The second OP describes themselves as a "pro-shipper", and while I'm certainly not an anti I do think some pro-shipper/anti-anti rhetoric leans to much into being against any public criticism or negative reactions to media, at least those that bring up social justice issues. I'd like to be able to discuss and critique the things I consume without being being stifling or stifled, and it's not always straight-forward even for me as a random blogger, let alone for more visible critics.
EDIT: Too tired to articulate it but a very important aspect I didn't mention is the power relationships involved. Me criticising Eddie Redmayne up there is one thing, a BNF going after some no-name queer teenage fan for drawing Rule 63 art is quite another.
Basically: people should be able to write about their own experience without having to out themselves. Enforcing a narrow idea of who is 'allowed' to write certain stories (or assuming that only privileged people would even want to) hurts everyone.
But I also think criticism should be allowed to sometimes bring up the privilege of creators/actors etc, even when there's a chance they may be in the closet. We just need to be more careful about how we do it.
And I didn't like the implication that there should never be any backlash or concern over this sort of thing.
Note: I scrolled through the OP's blog and they mentioned there was complex cultural stuff going on with the Jamila Jameel thing making it a poor specific example. But that doesn't really affect their argument or mine.
1) I think it’s reasonable to generally encourage own voices etc, or be personally reluctant to trust certain kinds of authors to handle certain topics. But the way to do that is to just consume and promote works that you know are by the relevant group, not attack works that seemingly aren’t.
2)There are certain casting choices where I think it’s reasonable to complain on principle. Like if, say, a cis woman is cast as a trans man character, even though there’s a small but non-zero chance that the actor is actually a closeted trans man. But such criticism should bear in mind the possibility that you’re wrong about the actor and hold up even if you are, and shouldn't say someone is definitely cis/straight etc when all you can say is that they're not known to be anything else.
Like if it turns out that Eddie Redmayne is a closeted trans woman, and the creators of The Danish Girl knew that, I'd say it was still bad to cast someone who was publicly seen as a cis man in the role of a trans woman. So someone could acknowledge the possibility that Eddie Redmayne is actually a woman while still criticising the casting.
If you think it would be ok if the creator/actor etc was X, then that's different, and requires a more thoughtful approach. Like you might complain about the pattern of (seemingly) straight writers creating popular works about queer people, but at most just make a tired sigh about any individual case, which isn't going to do any real harm to the author if they are queer but closeted.
3) There’s messy situations where people do have a problem with the actual portrayal, and find it so offensive they assume it must have been created by a transphobic cis person etc, but then the author comes out and says they were drawing on personal experience and it’s all a mess. See: I Sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter. I mean this would happen a lot less often if so much criticism didn’t assume a simple Problematic-vs-Good Representation dichotomy, and there was more space to acknowledge differing reactions and unfortunate trends without jumping so quickly to This Should Never Have Been Made.
But like... we need to give marginalised people space to work through their reactions to things that hurt them, even if it’s in confronting or controversial ways, in both art and criticism. How we can do that while minimising the hurt we do to each other is a question I have yet seen any simple answers for, though we should all keep trying anyway.
The second OP describes themselves as a "pro-shipper", and while I'm certainly not an anti I do think some pro-shipper/anti-anti rhetoric leans to much into being against any public criticism or negative reactions to media, at least those that bring up social justice issues. I'd like to be able to discuss and critique the things I consume without being being stifling or stifled, and it's not always straight-forward even for me as a random blogger, let alone for more visible critics.
EDIT: Too tired to articulate it but a very important aspect I didn't mention is the power relationships involved. Me criticising Eddie Redmayne up there is one thing, a BNF going after some no-name queer teenage fan for drawing Rule 63 art is quite another.
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Yeah I am a survivor and have had some incredibly bad experiences with antis where it went from "listen to survivors! They all say non-con fic is bad!" to "Oh, well...you may be a survivor but if you disagree with me then...". Unlike winterbird I don't write anything very controversial, and am also less visible as a writer, so haven't had to deal with anyone coming after me personally. But the rhetoric still does my head in.
On the other hand before that I had some bad experiences during the warnings debate, including someone who didn't like warnings deliberately attempting to trigger me out of spite (my reactions are inconsistent and complicated, something antis have no space for in their rhetoric) But at least those people didn't claim to be protecting me :/
I don't think we should not talk about representation in the media, but I do think that assuming that the person writing is or is not #ownvoices is getting us down a bad path
Yeah, agreed. Ownvoices and/or otherwise marginalised, which still affects things like your vulnerability to the consequences of being canceled.
I have had very similar thoughts about critiquing specific works! And it's frustrating because sometimes a fic is a PERFECT example of a trope but if I bring it up suddenly the conversation is about that fic, not the trope. So yeah, I mostly make locked posts or rant to friends on discord etc.
What counts as punching up is messy. Afaict a lot of the nastiest online fights happen between professional writers with various amounts of success, online clout, and privilege and there's definitely power differentials but it's hard to draw a neat line. Like...I'm a 'professional writer' in the sense that I sell narrative games I made as a hobby at a rate of like 10 a year. There is a continuum from those even less successful than me to the creators of a huge AAA game like The Last of Us 2. How big does a game have to be before I'm not talking about a peer? I think that line does exist but it's not unambiguous.
But yeah either way there's a lot of unwarranted assumptions and people feeling obliged to weigh in on The Current Controversy whether they really understand it or not. Which is an impulse I am still working on myself, though heavily pruning my twitter list helped.
I also think that talking to each other, talking to the person, and talking to the studio all feel like different things, but I haven't really worked out how to balance that.
Yeah. Though in creative communities these lines all blur. Just the other day I ranted about something that had bothered me in the games community on a game dev discord and the person I was ranting about turned out to be in the room >.> (They were pretty nice about it and took my criticism on board but I felt like a jerk)
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The "who is a peer?" thing is so blurry, you're right! I think half my flist has SF/F or romance stories published in one venue or another. As far as I know, Isabel Fell could be one of them (I'm pretty sure I'd have heard, but she COULD be). And some of the people who called at that story had multiple actual Hugo awards under their belts (rather than the 1/500,000,000th variety), some people were presidents of professional associations. That's not punching up, and it's debatably not even if it were just within non-pro-writer spaces (which are where, exactly, given how many side hassles we all have?). But where's the line. The multiple Hugo people are also often simultaneously in fandom. Is Naomi Novik my peer? Is her fandom pseude? I've publicly criticised both before, not feeling like I was risking a dog pile, but that could have turned out differently if I'd been unlucky or leveraged it differently. We're all sharing space to some extent.
I have similar problems with critiquing individual actors themselves (especially mid list or lower ones) for agreeing to take roles. Like, if Redmayne had turned down The Danish Girl, the same writing/casting/directing/producing team would likely have hired another cis guy. (Though there have been cases of an actor turning down a role and insisting on diverse casting, and getting it, but they're not that common.) The problems with that movie weren't the front man, so much as *points to comment above.* (I don't care about Redmayne one way or another, maybe he's a dick who deserved to get yelled at, who knows, but he wasn't the biggest issue with The Danish Girl.) But finding the people making the choices, and getting access to them, that's another problem. So often it seems like people fall for an easy target.
(Aside: like the Dr. Mae Jemison quote: "It's important not only for a little black girl growing up to know, yeah, you can become an astronaut because here's Mae Jemison, but it's important for older white males who sometimes make decisions on those careers of those little black girls.")
I'm trying to follow my own Take a Goddamn Breath Challenge form January more. I found that writing out long posts and then using the words to fight monsters on 4thewords instead of posting them helps. I know how much I like the emotional high of being in a pile on, and really don't want to be that person. Sometimes what you can do is not do more harm?
But that too risks going to far back into "if you see something, say nothing, and drink to forget," territory, which leaves fans actually dealing with problematic shit and being marginalised with the community out on their own. Which is also less than ideal.
I haven't found a balance, and I feel like the whole latest round of racism in fandom discussion has really highlighted how much I haven't found a balance.
Not really a lot of solutions in this very long comment, sorry.
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Thank you, that's cool! (I generally try and keep my game dev and fannish identities separate, but it seems fairly safe to acknowledge it in the bottom of an old comment thread :))
And yeah I struggle with the same line between 'joining pile-ons because everyone else is" and "doing nothing".
Is Naomi Novik my peer? Is her fandom pseude?
Exactly! I mean
And like...one down-side of them being so popular and visible as a writer of controversial explicit fic is that they encounter a lot of antis. Being popular makes it harder for them to be run out of fandom, and would make it easier for them to send their friends to attack people if they wanted (which they don't) but it doesn't make being sent nasty messages not hurt. Seeing their experience has made me happier about being a MNF.
At the same time, being a BNF does come with power that people have used badly, and being a successful author even more. So...yeah.