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So, it's hard to explain very clearly what my health problems really involve, and I know with other people's I often feel confused but not wanting to offend by asking. So, a synopsis.
Not required reading by any account.
In general, the symptoms which have been my lifelong companions and which tend to flare up any time anything is wrong with me are a sore throat, general malaise (feeling generally sick/tired etc) and digestive problems. This makes it hard to tell exactly what problem causes what so they all blend in together.
In order of appearance:
High susceptibility to respiratory infections: any time I get run down I get a cold. These used to be REALLY nasty, but have improved a lot as I've gotten older. The three most reliable triggers are the release of stress, a strained throat, and tiring myself out while sick (and here "sick" means anything on this page except my knees). For this reason I avoid stress, especially about particular days (I couldn't avoid getting sick on my wedding :/), avoid extended singing/loud talking etc, and am REALLY careful with myself when ill. My old work pressured me to work when I was sick until I got three infections in a row and had to take three weeks off as a result.
Food intolerances: These make me feel bloated, nauseous, and tired with a swollen throat, and the symptoms can last anything from half and hour to a few days. The main ones are dairy, soy, and cocoa butter. I didn't really deal with these until my early 20s (after I left home and could control my diet) which is why some people still remember me as a chocolate fiend. Can trigger chronic fatigue/colds.
Bad knees: caused by shonky ankles. I have orthotics now but still have trouble walking up stairs or steep slopes, and the more stairs I walk up the more it hurts, so I avoid them on principle. Otherise not really a problem.
Chronic fatigue: Given the above, it's hard to pinpoint when this started, but I'm inclined to think it was during the first year of my Phd in 2001. It causes fatigue, obviously, but overall I feel like I've just had a REALLY tiring day, so my muscles ache, I have trouble concentrating, and overall my body is just saying "LIE DOWN STOP DOING ANYTHING!". Also (naturally) my throat is often very sensitive which can set off/simulate a cold. I used to be mostly fine but get the odd attack, but my "normal" went down hill and the attacks got longer and more frequent, and have been pretty much my usual state for the last couple of months. At this point I spend large parts of my day sitting/lying down and trying to get the energy/waiting for my legs to stop hurting enough to do small things like make lunch or turn on the playstation. I have real trouble concentrating, which makes it hard to do a lot of day-to-day jobs like answering email, decide on a birthday present etc. I'm not low on creative energy though, so if I let my subconscious ponder something for a while and just let it flow when I feel inspired can still do stuff like lj posts/art etc. But I can't tell myself to do something if it's not sitting there pre-written in my subconscious. If that makes sense. (Another thing which requires too much concentration: proof-reading :))
Attacks happen at random but are also triggered/worsened by tiring myself (which at this point means "walking in to the kitchen for a snack one too many times") I can ignore it to some extent for a day or so if I have to but then feel REALLY BAD afterwards. Sometimes it's worth it, especially if I'm careful not to push too hard. Also set off by anything else being wrong with me, ie stress, a cold, reflux, food reactions.
Reflux: Oddly enough, I don't notice much actual reflux (as in, tasting/feeling stomach acid coming up) but I get a very distinctive unpleasant feeling in my stomach, my throat gets really irritated, and it tends to set off my chronic fatigue. This is triggered by all sorts things: fat, acid, alcohol, red capsicum/chili/paprika, watercress, and possibly other things I haven't figured out yet. Summary of all my food issues.
Consequences of sickness: I spend a lot of time feeling bored and lonely (though since I stopped forcing myself into work I'm not TOO miserable any more most of the time), and the under socialisation isn't helping my naturally awkward social skills any. Also I tend to spend too much time on the computer/DS and give myself a headache. I rarely get the chance to go out (and feel stupid and vague when I do), and the house is a mess :/ On the plus side, I have LOTS of time for writing lj entries :)
See also: Spoon theory.
And that's all I can think of for now. Let me know if I've missed anything you're interested in and I'll ignore your email for a week and then add it in :D
EDIT: While this does all sound pretty dire, it's amazing what you can get used to. And living with it at home is a HUNDRED BILLION times better than when I was this sick and trying to work. Blech.
Not required reading by any account.
In general, the symptoms which have been my lifelong companions and which tend to flare up any time anything is wrong with me are a sore throat, general malaise (feeling generally sick/tired etc) and digestive problems. This makes it hard to tell exactly what problem causes what so they all blend in together.
In order of appearance:
High susceptibility to respiratory infections: any time I get run down I get a cold. These used to be REALLY nasty, but have improved a lot as I've gotten older. The three most reliable triggers are the release of stress, a strained throat, and tiring myself out while sick (and here "sick" means anything on this page except my knees). For this reason I avoid stress, especially about particular days (I couldn't avoid getting sick on my wedding :/), avoid extended singing/loud talking etc, and am REALLY careful with myself when ill. My old work pressured me to work when I was sick until I got three infections in a row and had to take three weeks off as a result.
Food intolerances: These make me feel bloated, nauseous, and tired with a swollen throat, and the symptoms can last anything from half and hour to a few days. The main ones are dairy, soy, and cocoa butter. I didn't really deal with these until my early 20s (after I left home and could control my diet) which is why some people still remember me as a chocolate fiend. Can trigger chronic fatigue/colds.
Bad knees: caused by shonky ankles. I have orthotics now but still have trouble walking up stairs or steep slopes, and the more stairs I walk up the more it hurts, so I avoid them on principle. Otherise not really a problem.
Chronic fatigue: Given the above, it's hard to pinpoint when this started, but I'm inclined to think it was during the first year of my Phd in 2001. It causes fatigue, obviously, but overall I feel like I've just had a REALLY tiring day, so my muscles ache, I have trouble concentrating, and overall my body is just saying "LIE DOWN STOP DOING ANYTHING!". Also (naturally) my throat is often very sensitive which can set off/simulate a cold. I used to be mostly fine but get the odd attack, but my "normal" went down hill and the attacks got longer and more frequent, and have been pretty much my usual state for the last couple of months. At this point I spend large parts of my day sitting/lying down and trying to get the energy/waiting for my legs to stop hurting enough to do small things like make lunch or turn on the playstation. I have real trouble concentrating, which makes it hard to do a lot of day-to-day jobs like answering email, decide on a birthday present etc. I'm not low on creative energy though, so if I let my subconscious ponder something for a while and just let it flow when I feel inspired can still do stuff like lj posts/art etc. But I can't tell myself to do something if it's not sitting there pre-written in my subconscious. If that makes sense. (Another thing which requires too much concentration: proof-reading :))
Attacks happen at random but are also triggered/worsened by tiring myself (which at this point means "walking in to the kitchen for a snack one too many times") I can ignore it to some extent for a day or so if I have to but then feel REALLY BAD afterwards. Sometimes it's worth it, especially if I'm careful not to push too hard. Also set off by anything else being wrong with me, ie stress, a cold, reflux, food reactions.
Reflux: Oddly enough, I don't notice much actual reflux (as in, tasting/feeling stomach acid coming up) but I get a very distinctive unpleasant feeling in my stomach, my throat gets really irritated, and it tends to set off my chronic fatigue. This is triggered by all sorts things: fat, acid, alcohol, red capsicum/chili/paprika, watercress, and possibly other things I haven't figured out yet. Summary of all my food issues.
Consequences of sickness: I spend a lot of time feeling bored and lonely (though since I stopped forcing myself into work I'm not TOO miserable any more most of the time), and the under socialisation isn't helping my naturally awkward social skills any. Also I tend to spend too much time on the computer/DS and give myself a headache. I rarely get the chance to go out (and feel stupid and vague when I do), and the house is a mess :/ On the plus side, I have LOTS of time for writing lj entries :)
See also: Spoon theory.
And that's all I can think of for now. Let me know if I've missed anything you're interested in and I'll ignore your email for a week and then add it in :D
EDIT: While this does all sound pretty dire, it's amazing what you can get used to. And living with it at home is a HUNDRED BILLION times better than when I was this sick and trying to work. Blech.
Tags:
- cfs,
- health,
- just so you know,
- life,
- me
Re: I don't remember
My digestive system has been a problem since LONG before the cfs :) But it certainly doesn't help.